Even in today's society, I think the vast majority of people understand that oral sex in these cases would be adultery. The marriage bed is an altar and the sexual union is one of the highest forms of worship before God. I was so hurt by her not being interested in anything sexual. Contact Us Your full name. Even President Clinton tried to avoid the charge of engaging in sex with an intern by stating that sex didn't take place. He just screams n yells to shut me up. Surveys now show that many teenagers are convinced that oral sex is not really sex, even though the word appears in the phrase.
Oral sex is an intimate experience that will expose you both to each other. I think many Christian couples have no idea what freedom they have in the bedroom. I find it a little ironic that there is even a debate over whether oral sex is really sex. There is likely more to the religion and technical virginity story than the ambiguous definition of sex. Social Science and Medicine.
In classical Greek it referred to a person using the services of a prostitute, but by the time of the New Testament its meaning broaden to refer to anyone engaged in sexual activity outside the realm of marriage. The symbols are therefore not necessarily meant to have any one-to-one relationship with corresponding realities; rather they are general emblems of beauty and desire. It does not have to be restricted to a man's penis entering a woman's vagina. It refers to a person who has broken the marriage bond by engaging in sexual activity, either with a person married to someone else or, being married, with someone who is not his spouse. Join in the conversation on Facebook or Twitter.
In the early s, about 15 percent of adolescent girls and 25 percent of adolescent boys had engaged in oral sex but not vaginal intercourse Newcomer and Udry But dude, only 6 orgasms? Song of Solomon was a love poem between a husband and his wife and it was very steamy. I am very cautious when I do searches because of what might come up. I am secretly, thanks to Generous Wife and this blog, trying to open up a bit to the freedom found in the Christian marriage bed, especially concerning oral sex. The word "adulterers" in Hebrews